Sis, It’s Time to Get Your Pink Back

Feeling lost in motherhood? Learn how to partner with God to get your pink back and rediscover the vibrant, confident woman He created you to be!

Let me take you back to nearly 10 years ago when I first stepped into motherhood. Whew—talk about a whirlwind! The moment I held my sweet baby in my arms, I knew life would never be the same. But what I didn’t realize was how much of me I would lose in the process. My interests? Gone. My hobbies? Forgotten. My sense of self? Completely buried under diapers, sleepless nights, and constant demands. I became Mom, and Kayla—the woman with dreams, passions, and purpose—disappeared somewhere along the way.

Fast forward to 2023. By the grace of God, I had a breakthrough. It wasn’t an overnight fix, but God began revealing to me who I truly was—not just as a mom, but as His daughter. I discovered my identity in Christ and began to walk in the purpose He designed for me. Sis, I got my pink back. And today, I want to encourage you to get your pink back as well.

What Does It Mean to Get Your Pink Back?

If you’ve been scrolling through TikTok, you might’ve seen the trend about women “getting their pink back.” But if you haven’t, let me break it down for you.

The phrase started as a way for women to reclaim their femininity, confidence, and joy after feeling lost in the roles and responsibilities life throws at them—whether it’s motherhood, career burnout, or life’s curveballs. Pink, in this context, represents all things soft, beautiful, powerful, and uniquely you. It’s about rediscovering what makes you feel alive, vibrant, and confident.

But here’s something beautiful about this phrase, Sis—it’s more than just a trendy saying. “Get your pink back” actually mirrors something that happens in nature with flamingos. Did you know that when flamingos raise their chicks, their vibrant pink color fades or even disappears completely? Why? Because all of their energy and nutrients go toward nourishing and protecting their babies. They literally give of themselves until there’s nothing left. But as their chicks grow older and become more independent, guess what happens? The flamingos begin to regain their vibrant pink color. Their strength returns, their beauty shines again, and they flourish.

Sis, doesn’t that sound familiar? How many times have you poured everything into your family, leaving nothing for yourself? Just like those flamingos, we give our time, energy, and love to raise our babies, often at the expense of our own needs. But here’s the good news—you can get your pink back. And while Lindsey Gurk might’ve started the trend, God had the blueprint all along. Getting your pink back isn’t just about painting your nails or buying a new outfit (although, Sis, treat yourself!). It’s about partnering with God to rediscover the vibrant, confident woman He created you to be.

Losing Yourself in Motherhood

Motherhood is beautiful, but let’s be real—it’s also overwhelming. As Christian moms, we often feel this pressure to do it all: be the perfect wife, the perfect mom, the perfect Christian. And somewhere between the endless to-do lists, laundry piles, and late-night feedings, we forget that we matter too.

I used to think losing myself was just part of the deal. Like, “Well, this is what motherhood looks like, right?” But that’s a lie from the enemy. God never intended for motherhood to strip us of our identity. In fact, He enhances our identity through motherhood.

Ephesians 2:10 reminds us, “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” You are a masterpiece, Sis. Motherhood doesn’t erase that—it adds a new layer to your masterpiece. Two snaps!

How Partnering with God Helps You Get Your Pink Back

So how do we get back to that vibrant, confident woman God created us to be? It starts with partnering with God. Here’s how:

Rediscover Your Identity in Christ

Before you’re a mom, a wife, or anything else—you are a child of God. The daughter of the King. Your worth isn’t tied to how many snacks you prepare, how clean your house is, or even how perfect your quiet time looks. Your identity is rooted in Christ.

Galatians 2:20 says, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me.” When we surrender our old ways of thinking—especially the belief that we have to sacrifice ourselves completely for our families—we allow Christ to live fully through us.

Sis, take time to reconnect with who you are in Him. Pray, journal, and ask God to reveal the woman He’s calling you to be in this season.

Embrace Your God-Given Passions

Remember those hobbies and interests you used to love before becoming a mom? Maybe it was painting, writing, cooking, or dancing. Whatever it was, God placed those passions in your heart for a reason. They’re not just for your enjoyment—they’re part of your purpose.

1 Corinthians 10:31 says, “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” That means your passions, no matter how small they seem, can be a form of worship.

It’s time to dust off those old dreams and step back into the things that light your soul on fire. Maybe it’s starting a new project, taking a class, or simply carving out time to do what you love. Don’t feel guilty for investing in yourself—when you thrive, your family thrives too.

Prioritize Spiritual Self-Care

Sis, I know life gets busy, but your spiritual health matters. Just like you can’t pour from an empty cup, you can’t lead your family in faith if you’re spiritually drained.

Make time for God, even if it’s just five minutes a day. Listen to worship music while folding laundry, meditate on a Bible verse during nap time, or pray while driving to soccer practice. The point isn’t how much time you spend, but how intentionally you connect with Him.

Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still, and know that I am God.” Even in the chaos of motherhood, God invites us to find stillness in His presence.

Surround Yourself with a Faith-Filled Community

You weren’t meant to do this alone. Surround yourself with women who uplift you, challenge you, and remind you of God’s truth when you forget it yourself.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.” Find your tribe, Sis. Whether it’s through church, a mom’s group, or even online communities, having sisters in Christ to walk this journey with you makes all the difference.

Practical Steps to Get Your Pink Back

Now that we’ve covered the spiritual side, let’s get practical! Here are some simple steps to help you get your pink back and rediscover your sparkle:

1. Schedule “Me Time”: Block off time in your calendar just for you. Whether it’s 30 minutes to read a book or an afternoon out, prioritize it like any other important appointment.
2. Get Dressed for You: Sis, I know it’s tempting to stay in sweats all day (trust me, I’ve been there), but sometimes putting on a cute outfit or a little lip gloss can do wonders for your confidence.
3. Set Boundaries: Learn to say no to things that drain you and yes to what fills your cup. Boundaries are biblical, Sis! (See Matthew 5:37.)
4. Celebrate Small Wins: Don’t wait for big milestones to celebrate. Did you finally finish that book? Cook a new recipe? Spend five extra minutes in prayer? Celebrate it!
5. Pray Bold Prayers: Ask God to reveal new dreams and opportunities. Trust that He’s not done writing your story.

You Are More Than Just a Mom

Sis, motherhood is a part of your identity, but it’s not the whole story. You are a woman of God, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). You have gifts, dreams, and a purpose beyond what you can imagine.

Getting your pink back isn’t about going back to who you were before kids—it’s about embracing the woman God is shaping you to be now. So, stand tall, fix your crown, and step into the fullness of who God created you to be.

Because you, Sis? You’re more than enough. And it’s time the world saw it.

Let’s Chat: In the comments below, share how you plan to get your pink back this season. I’d love to hear your story!